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Whether you are a man or a woman is not the key here. What is important,however, is the specific relationship advice you give to each party. You must always remember this: men and women both have needs in a relationship, but these specific needs may not always be obvious to the opposite sex. Therefore, you must first learn how the other sex operates. I’ll explain.
In order to have a happy and fulfilling life with your partner, you must understand and appreciate him or her and learn how he or she thinks. This is the key to any lasting relationship. You’re at an age when you do what feels good in the moment, and you do what you think is best at the time. Even better yet, you may be fortunate enough to be a member of a strong family, with a loving mother and father who are they to help you through thick and thin. And if you are very lucky, you are a member of a family whose members communicate well with each other — and you know you can talk to them and listen to them.
I’ve not been that fortunate. I’ve been allowed to go it alone, and as a result, I have made several relationship mistakes. I wasn’t one of those people who grew up with a supportive family — no loving mother, no dad to lean on, nothing. I was forced to navigate through life and relationships alone, and I was very unsuccessful. On the upside, when something goes great I can take credit for it fully. Ive learned that when it comes to picking your life partner, the choice isn’t as easy as you may think; in fact, it may be the most difficult decision you’ll ever make.
I’m just an ordinary guy, someone who can see that young people in our country and throughout the world need to know some things about relationships. I think this way mainly because somewhere out there are the two male idiots who are going to go out with and eventually marry my daughters. I wish those men luck. My daughters are smarter and more cultured than you, and are generally better than you in about every conceivable way. I have realized that God has a sense of humor when I think about the vast differences in men and women.
There is no way around it, men have to put up with women, and women have to deal with men. And yet, we’re practically two separate species. Men and women differ in appearance, thought process, actions, and even voice. Men are physically stronger, but women are clearly smarter. I can hear the backlash now from all the men who are in disbelief that a woman could be smarter than them. Well, the fact of the matter is, women have a greater capacity to learn than men. Once you accept this you will be much better off. Women don’t complain about the fact that men are smarter.
You must understand that because I am a man, I tend to look at life’s situations through a man’s eyes. However, I also have two daughters and a deep affection for women, and so I am able to look at life from a female perspective as well. That is why advice should be given to men and women specifically so that one gender can better understand the other. If we want to live a happy life together, we must accept the fact that men and women are different creatures and therefore think differently.
Henry Roelink considers himself an expert on love.
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