If you have lost your boyfriend you may be asking “how to get my ex back when he’s moved on’? Don’t dwell on it too much as even though you feel down now this won’t last forever. Here is a plan to get your boyfriend to come back to you even if he has somebody else now.
1 – The first step is to get your ex to realise that he still has feelings for you and that he wants you. If you are cool he will be happy to spend time with you.
2 – If you be a good friend to him at this time he will want you. All you have to do is act like a good friend, show you understand him, listen to him and talk to him. Make him know that you can be around him and there won’t be a drama. After the problems of the split fade he will find he still wants you.
3 – Be nice and sweet when you talk to him but don’t let him think that you are easy to get. Have a bit of attitude. He has to desire you but you have to show him you can stand on your own two feet. Make yourself a bit inaccessible to arouse his interest.
4 – It might seem a contradiction to the previous point but you also need to send the message that you are available. A bit of going out and enjoying yourself and even dating is a good thing. Making him a bit jealous is fine. If he doesn’t think you are available then it is unlikely he will try to go after you very much.
5 – Whatever you do don’t act desperately. If you do your ex boyfriend will have a lower estimation of you. He will value much more the ability to show you are cool with it all. Acting desperately will have the reverse effect.
6 – When you know he is looking at you then take a sidelong glance at him. You can increase his intrigue in you like this as this look seems a bit mysterious.
7 – From time to time remind him of the good times. Avoid brining up the bad times. This will make him think what a good couple you are.
These are just some ideas from the author of The Magic of Making Up. T.W. Jackson put together a step by step plan that worked for me. Check this Magic of Making Up review and learn about the Instant Reconnect Technique.