There’s no better way to drive a man wild than to prolong his orgasm. He’ll be begging you to let him finish, if you give him an erotic massage, bringing him to the edge of ejaculation, then backing off and letting his penis get soft before continuing.
To begin the massage have the man lie on his back with pillows under his head so he can watch the person performing the massage. Have him spread his legs apart and bend his knees. Start by gently massaging the legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, and nipples to get the man to relax. It’s also important for the man to breathe deeply to help relax. Next you can pour a small quantity of oil on the shaft of the penis and the testicles. Gently massage the testicles, being careful not to cause pain to this sensitive area, then massage the area above the penis, on the pubic bone. Also massage the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus, before moving on to the shaft of the penis.
Take your time when massaging the shaft of the penis, varying the speed and the pressure. Gently squeeze the base of the penis with your right hand, pull up and slide off, then alternate with your left hand. Take your time doing this as well, alternating between left and right. You can then change the direction by starting the squeeze at the head of the penis, and then sliding down and off, alternating between the left and right hand.
Massage the head of the penis as if you were using an orange juicer, and then massage all around the head and shaft. You will likely find that the penis will get hard, then get soft, then get hard again, and this means you’re doing it right. Hardness and softness are two ends of the pleasure spectrum. If you think the man is going to ejaculate, back off and allow the penis to soften a little before continuing. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off on the stimulation. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate and the result is an expanded sex life.
Also, according to The Kama Sutra a tantric massage for men has many health and stress reduction benefits for both the person receiving the massage and the person performing the massage. A couple will become closer through the process of discovering their partner, and discovering themselves.
